Discerning My Vocation as an Artist

21 05 2010

How I came to be doing what I always dreamed of
I have had e-mails from people asking how they can become an artist. One response to this is to describe the training I would recommend for those who are in a position to go out and get it. I have done this here. However, this is only part of it (even if you accept my ideas and are in a position to pay for the training I recommend). It was more important for me first to discern what God wants me to do. I did not decide to become an artist until I was in my late twenties (I am now 47 in case you were wondering!).  That I have been able to do so is, I believe, down to inspired guidance. I was shown first how to discern my vocation; and second how to follow it. I am not an expert in vocational guidance, so I am simply offering my experience here for others to make use of as they like.

I am a Catholic convert (which is another story) but influential in my conversation was an older gentleman called David Birtwistle, who was a Catholic. (He died more than ten years ago now.) One day he asked me if I was happy in my work. I told him that I could be happier, but I wasn’t sure what else to do. He offered to help me find a fulfilling role in life.

He asked me a question: ‘If you inherited so much money that you never again had to work for the money, what activity would you choose to do, nine to five, five days a week?’ One thing that he said he was certain about was that God wanted me to be happy. Provided that what I wanted to do wasn’t inherently bad (such as drug dealing!) then there was every reason to suppose that my answer to this question was what God wanted me to do.

While I thought this over, he made a couple of points. First, he was not asking me what job I wanted to do, or what career I wanted to follow. Even if no one else is in the world is employed to do what you choose, he said, if it is what God wants for you there will be way that you will be able to support yourself. He told me to put all worries about how I would achieve this out of my mind for the moment. Such doubts might stop me from having the courage to articulate my true goal for fear of failure. Remember, he said, that if God’s wants you to be Prime Minister, it requires less than the ‘flick of His little finger’ to make it happen. If wanted to do more than one thing, he said I should just list them all, prioritise them and then aim first for the activity at the top of the list.

I was able to answer his question easily. I wanted to be an artist. As soon as I said it, I partly regretted it because the doubts that David warned me about came flooding in. Wasn’t I just setting myself up for a fall? I had already been to university and studied science to post-graduate level. How was I ever going to fund myself through art school? And even if I managed that, such a small proportion of people coming out of art school make a living from art. What hope did I have? I worried that I would end up in my mid-thirties a failed artist with no other prospects. David reassured me that this was not what would happen. This process did not involve ever being reckless or foolish, but I would always need faith to stave off fear.

Next David suggested that I write down a detailed description of my ideal. He stressed the importance of crystallizing this vision in my mind sufficient to be able to write it down. This would help to ensure that I spotted opportunities when they were presented to me. Then, always keeping my sights on the final destination, I should plan only to take the first step. Only after I have taken the first step should I even think about the second. Again David reiterated that at no stage should I do anything so reckless that it may cause me to let down dependants, to be unable to pay the rent or put food on the table.

The first step, he explained, can be anything that takes me nearer to my final destination. If I wasn’t sure what to do, he told me to go and talk to working artists and to ask for their suggestions. There are usually two approaches to this: either you learn the skills and then work out how to get paid for them; or even if you have to do something other than what you want, you put yourself in the environment where people are doing it. For example, he suggested that I might get a job in an art school as an administrator. My first step turned out to be straighforward. All the artists I spoke to told me to start by enrolling for an evening class in life drawing at the local art school.

My experience since has been that I have always had enough momentum to encourage me to keep going. To illustrate, here’s what happened in that first period:  the art teacher at Chelsea Art School evening class noticed that I liked to draw and suggested that I learn to paint with egg tempera. I tried to master it but struggled and after the class was finished I told someone about this. He happened to know someone else who, he thought, worked with egg tempera. He gave me the name and I wrote asking for help. About a month later I received a letter from someone else altogether. It turned out that the person I had written to was not an artist at all, but had been passed the letter on to someone who was called Aidan Hart. Aidan was an icon painter. It was Aidan who wrote to me and who invited me to come and spend the weekend with him to learn the basics. Up until this point I had never seen or even heard of icons. Aidan eventually became my teacher and advisor.

There have been many chance meetings similar to this since. And over the course of years my ideas about what I wanted to do became more detailed or changed. Each time I modified the vision statement accordingly, and then looked out for a new next step – when I realized that there was no school to teach Catholics their own traditions, I decided that I would have to found that school myself and then enlist as its first student. Later it dawned on me that the easiest way to do thatwas to learn the skills myself from different people and then be the teacher.

I was also told that there were two reasons why  I wouldn’t achieve my dream: first, was that I didn’t try; the second was that en route I would find myself doing something even better, perhaps something that wasn’t on my list now. When this happens you will be enjoying so much you stop looking further.

David also stressed how important it was always to be grateful for what I have today. He said that unless I could cultivate gratitude for the gifts that God is giving me today, then I would be in a permanent state of dissatisfaction. In which case, even if I got what I wanted I wouldn’t be happy. This gratitude should start right now, he said, with the life you have today. Aside from living the sacramental life, he told me to write a daily list of things to be grateful for and to thank God daily for them. Even if things weren’t going my way there were always things to be grateful for, and I should develop the habit of looking for them and giving praise to God for his gifts. He also stressed strongly that I should constantly look to help others along their way.

As time progressed I met others who seemed to be understand these things. So just in case I was being foolish I asked for their thoughts. First was an Oratorian priest. He asked me for my reasons for wanting to be an artist. He listened to my response and then said that he thought that God was calling me to be an artist. Some years later, I asked a monk who was an icon painter. He asked me the same questions as the Oratorian and then gave the same answer.

What was interesting about all three people so far is that none of them asked what seemed to be the obvious question: ‘Are you any good at painting?’ I asked the monk/artist why and he said that you can always learn the skills to paint, but in order to be really good at what you do you have to love it.

Some years later still, when I was studying in Florence, I went to see a priest there who was an expert in Renaissance art. It was for his knowledge of art that I wanted to speak to him, rather than spiritual direction. I wanted to know if my ideas regarding the principles for an art school were sound. He listened and like the others encouraged me in what I was doing.  Three years later, after yet another chance meeting, I was offered the chance to come to Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire, to do what precisely what I had described to the priest in Florence.

In my meeting with him the Florentine priest remarked in passing, even though I hadn’t asked him this, that he thought that it was my vocation to try to establish this school. He then said something else that I found interesting. He warned me that I couldn’t be sure that I would ever get this school off the ground but he was certain that I should try. As I did so, my activities along the way would attract people to the Faith (most likely in ways unknown to me). This is, he said, is what a vocation is really about.





13 responses

21 05 2010
Douglas Bonneville

This is very inspiring for me personally. I’m on a similar discernment of vocation path from full-time graphic designer into Catholic art in some capacity. My training was Fine Art, but I ventured into design after I left (drifted) Catholicism for a 20 year sojourn in Protestant circles, in which religious art has pretty much no tradition. I reverted back to Catholicism 2 years ago (after much ministry, study, and a Bible degree), along with the wife and kids and now horizons that long seemed closed off are brimming with possibility.

I think the key thing I take away from this is to make sure I’m aligning myself, however incrementally, with the things that pertain to where I want to end up, and work towards attaining a new set of skills (and friends) to do it. While I’d love a million bucks and a green light to go do whatever I want right now, I’m very content, and learning to be more so, with the small steps I’m taking along the way. Learning to be thankful and content here and now is excellent advise – glad to receive it!

The world needs new Catholic artists of the highest objective standards.

Thanks for posting such a personal post. I’d like to get up to the school sometime and visit – we are in Rhode Island so it’s not too far!

21 05 2010

I would love to see you sometime, Douglas

21 05 2010
Anne Harriss

Thanks for this, David! At a time of confusion, this has got to be the best approach. At least, along the way, one gets into the habit of praising God! Whether change is in the air or not, it must help get things much clearer… Thank you!

22 05 2010

It’s great to hear a more personal note from you David! Your story is quite beautiful and very inspiring. It’s great that you share this with your students – I’m certain that they must benefit from your influence.

24 05 2010
J. Gordon Anderson

Great post. I would add one thing to those aspiring to be artists: they have to be willing to make sacrifices. People have in their minds this idea of being an artist… that it is glamorous, carefree, and always full of excitement. But they have no idea of the sacrifice that even “hobby” artists make to pursue their craft. It takes a great deal of personal, spiritual, and financial sacrifice to be a true artist. And that is why there are so few today… even so many Christians who are interested in the arts are not willing to make the necessary sacrifice – to pursue the way of beauty no matter what the cost!

25 05 2010

I can only go on my experience. I am sure that in following this I have foregone some material benefits and opportunities. Also, it has been hard work. In that sense some sacrifices are made.
But it has never felt that it is a sacrifice to do this because I feel fulfilled. When I was earning a high salary in London but not following this, I felt more frustrated through a lack of fulfilment.
With my vocation the more I do it, the more I want to do it. So the hard work comes easily. In my case, that sense of fulfilment has always been there at every stage of the journey.
And I wouldn’t go so far as to say ‘no matter what the cost’. The point was made to me that if this is my vocation then opportunities will appear that don’t require me to be homeless or to fail to meet my basic responsibilities. This approach, as presented to me, is very practical and does not require sacrifice to the point of recklessness. (I’m guessing though that you didn’t mean this literally, but were exaggerating to make the point?)

25 05 2010
J. Gordon Anderson

Sacrifice in the sense of doing the hard work necessary to fulfill your vocation.

Sacrifice is a good thing. To be sure, it involves suffering, otherwise it is not sacrifice. But from sacrifice comes life – even life everlasting!

Love your blog – and your work… God bless you!

25 05 2010

That’s great Gordon, thank you!

25 05 2010

Great blog and an inspiring story!

30 06 2010
Vocation and the Common Good « The Way of Beauty

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24 03 2011

thanks for this post. i came upon it while websurfing, and it speaks to where i am right now. thanks for the encouragement.

24 03 2011

I’m so glad it was helpful, Rui. thank you for letting me know, David

24 03 2011
Douglas Bonneville

This is a link to a website for a parish in RI I’m developing. The icon painting classes, approved by the diocese, is hot off the presses:


This will move shortly to:


…so try at the bonblogs site through the end of March.

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